Planning a wedding can be a lot of fun, but it also gets stressful—especially when your opinions don’t line up exactly with your partner’s or other family members. As you research your venue, dresses and menu options, remember that all brides get into an argument or two during wedding preparations. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, trust Manoa Grand Ballroom in Honolulu, HI, to take care of everything you need for the perfect day—and take some deep breaths!

3 Concerns All Brides Have About Wedding Planning

1. The Food

Taste is personal, and everyone has strong feelings about their favorite dishes. If you love spicy and your partner is a plain Jane or Jason, it can be hard to agree. Add relatives and friends with special dietary restrictions and preferences, and choosing a menu can feel impossible. Ask the caterer at your venue for advice on blending a variety of food choices into the menu to keep as many people happy as possible.

2. The Music

This is another area where opinionated personal taste can come into play. If you have a list of songs you definitely don't want played, make sure your DJ or band leader knows about it—and leave them to politely ignore those song requests from guests on the big day. This is also an area where you can afford to relax—you’ll be so busy greeting guests on the big day that you’re not likely to notice three minutes of a song you don’t love.

3. The Guest List

If your parents and future in-laws are trying to pad the guest list with their friends, you have to decide if it’s a battle worth fighting. If you’ve chosen a venue with limited seating, the decision may already be made. If you can squeeze in a few more bodies, though, keeping the peace may be well worth it—especially if they’re helping to pay for the event.

When you’re ready to plan your big day, call Manoa Grand Ballroom in Honolulu at (808) 946-6758 to find out more about their beautiful wedding venue and full slate of wedding services. You can also visit their website to get inspired.