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Divorce is a major life transition, and even amicable breakups can be emotionally devastating, especially if the couple shares children. If you’ve decided to end the marriage, you may be wondering how to tell the kids. The conversation is going to be hard regardless, but there are ways to soften the blow. Below, a divorce attorney from The Law Office of Steven Privette explains how.

Do It Together

Regardless of how you and your spouse may feel about each other, you are going to have to learn how to co-parent. One of the most important aspects of co-parenting is presenting a united front, which you should do from the start. Tell the children about the divorce together and avoid blaming each other if they ask why.

Although you may not have a custody arrangement in place yet, part of presenting a unified front is backing each other up, so make sure you’re on the same page about questions the kids will likely ask. For example, they may want to know if they have to change schools or move out of the family home. As such, it’s wise to consult with a divorce attorney before telling the children, so you can learn more about potential arrangements.   

Prepare for the Aftermath

divorce attorneyDozens of factors will ultimately determine how the children respond to the news. In households where arguing is common, for example, kids might feel a sense of relief. Regardless, it’s important to ensure your children have an outlet for any negative emotions they may be feeling. Arrange for them to meet with a counselor who specializes in adolescents going through major transitions, so they can work through their feelings and learn to express them productively.

If you want to end your marriage, a divorce attorney from The Law Office of Steven Privette in Willow Springs, MO, can guide you through every stage of the proceedings. For over three decades, they have been helping clients navigate the challenges of divorce, ensuring their best interests are met. You can learn more about the firm’s experience in family law by visiting the website. To schedule an initial consultation with one of their compassionate attorneys, call (417) 469-3535. 

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