Numerous issues accompany asking a spouse for a divorce. At Gilbert P. Kaback, Attorney at Law, in Colchester, CT, experienced divorce attorneys offer sound advice and planning to guide their clients through the complex process. Knowing what to do eases anxiety and helps relieve emotional tensions during the difficult times.

3 Steps to Take Before Asking for a Divorce

Consider Changes

Filing for divorce has a deep impact on a person’s life and the lives of their spouse, children, or stepchildren they might have. Their financial situation, style of living, and relationship with other family members can also change dramatically. When considering divorce, you must decide practical issues, including where to live during and after the separation, where the children will live, who will be part of your support system, and other changes that might be necessary to accommodate your new marital status.

Plan Finances

Separating finances and establishing bank accounts in your own name is important, as is dividing other assets, including real estate, business investments, and future pension rights. You should seek help from an experienced divorce attorney, who might ask your permission to consult a financial services professional to protect your interests going into the separation.

Tell Your Spouse

Prepare for your spouse’s reaction to your decision to divorce and how you intend to respond. Do you expect agreement or attempts to persuade you to change your mind? If there have been acts or threats of violence in the marriage or you suspect they might occur, you need a plan in place to protect yourself and your children. Speak with a divorce attorney about your options before you act. 

With more than 20 years of experience as a divorce attorney, Gilbert P. Kaback, Attorney at Law, in Colchester has the knowledge and skill to represent you in this life-changing experience. Before you tell your spouse you want a divorce, seek wise counsel from attorney Kaback. Visit the firm online to learn more about his services, or call (860) 537-0874 today to schedule your confidential consultation.