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As our loved ones age, they often need more and more help in their day to day lives. In these situations, professional home assistance is a great way to fill needs which can't easily be covered by family. But, many seniors are resistant to the idea of elderly care. If you're concerned about convincing a loved one to accept help, or are in the midst of trying to convince them, try approaching the discussion from a new angle with these three steps.

How to Help Your Loved One Accept Home Assistance

1. Understand Where They're Coming From

The switch to home assistance means a loss of privacy, which can leave your loved one feeling vulnerable and defensive. It can also mean admitting that they can no longer be independent, which is a fearful situation to be in. Depending on your loved one's personality, this can lead to anger over the change, guilt over being a burden, or simple stubbornness. Recognize the strength and validity of these emotions and try to find ways to address their root causes.

2. Approach Them Gently

Home AssistanceDiscussions about hiring a caregiver will go smoothly when everyone starts off in a calm, positive frame of mind. Choose a peaceful moment to approach your loved one and ask their preferences regarding available care options. Be kind and understanding, but don't be afraid to communicate your own needs and boundaries.

It might take several attempts to move the discussion forward. You can also enlist the help of other family members to convince your loved one to listen. If your loved one has doubts, suggest a trial period instead of a permanent change up front.

3. Pick Your Battles

Your loved one may have specific issues that are sticking points for them. Wherever possible, respect their boundaries, and focus on areas where they are less resistant. The important thing is not to impose your idea of good care on your loved one but to help ensure their needs are met.

 

Polish Helping Hands has provided home assistance and elder care in Unionville, CT, for nearly 20 years. Their experienced and attentive caregivers offer companionship and assistance that is tailored to each senior's needs. For more information or to arrange care, call them at (860) 404-0499 or send a message online.

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